It was unplanned, but Jordan came to my house for our session today. (I was trapped by road construction on my street, then she got trapped too which was hilarious!) And boy did we have a great time!! We laughed, we cried, we took photos, and laughed about that too!
This session, which is specifically about step 4 in our process, is very emotional and personal.
We continue to protect Jordan's privacy, so details of her personal journey remain confidential. We did not record the session, but I decided to shoot a quick video after the session! Watch below. Enjoy, relate and laugh with us as we get a peak of this very inspiring woman!
Jordan is a special Losing Coach® client because her journey is public.
A core principle in the Losing Coach® process is The Privacy Principle.
We adhere to it in the company, protecting every client's privacy.
And we teach it to every client for themselves. Very simply stated - Keep it private.
Keep what private? Everything. Everything you're doing and all the decisions you are making in regards to your eating, and your decisions with food. Why? To protect yourself. To maintain your dignity. And to block out all the voices out there that want to tell you what to do.
And so here is Jordan. Public. With a following. And publicly endorsing Losing Coach® publicly. So where does this leave Jordan? I mean, people will want to know what she is doing. How is she losing weight? How much weight is she losing? Etc...
Does that mean Jordan can't use our very powerful Privacy Principle to protect herself? Absolutely not.
It makes the Privacy Principle all the more necessary and all the more important for her. She must protect her privacy.
I have told her "What, when, how, why and where you decide to eat is not open for discussion with anyone else. Do not discuss your decisions with anyone. Do not look for feedback and/or validation from anyone. You've got this. You now know the truth and it's not open for debate...or discussion."
There are 3 stages of problem-solving we address in our coaching:
3. Taking Action
I told Jordan, "When you're done thinking and talking about everyone else's opinion and feedback about your diet, your weight and your body, then you are ready to take action. So be done with all the research and discussion. Be done with it. Nobody gets to question your decisions or tell you what to do. It's not open for discussion anymore. When you're done talking, you're ready to take action."
Your weight is YOUR business and no one else's.
I know people will ask Jordan about her weight loss with Losing Coach® and how can they get it too. But you see, Jordan can only tell you to take our Online Course to discover it for yourself. She can't tell you what she is doing for weight loss. She can't give it you; she really can't. She can't sell it to you. Nobody can sell weight loss.
Losing Coach® doesn't sell weight loss.
Weight loss is a result of the decisions you make day in and day out. And you are the only one who owns your brain, nobody can sell it to you.
We sell a service that equips you to make your own decisions in managing your weight. Decisions that will result in weight loss. Pretty simple.
So Jordan cannot tell you what she is doing to lose weight. To ask her to, is to ask her to transmit to your brain every thought process, every feeling, every decision and all the problem-solving skills she has acquired over her life-time. It can't be done. It's impossible.
You are the only one that can lose weight for yourself, and you can't get it from anyone else.
How much weight Jordan is losing is no one's business either. We will, from time to time, share where she is in her progress, but that will be when it is appropriate. Yes, she's already lost a few pounds (yep, that quickly...the brain is an amazing tool for weight loss). You'll have to keep checking back to see more. ;)
Erin and I will protect and defend Jordan's dignity and honor with a fierceness, especially since her journey will be public. Basically, we're like two angels with flaming swords, guarding the most sacred place on earth. We're that focused on a woman's dignity and honor. It's what we give to every woman who comes to Losing Coach®. And Jordan is no exception.
During one of our Facebook messagings, I wrote her, "We're going to have you in a bikini this summer!"
Her response, "Really??"
My reply, "Yes, no problem!"
And maybe just a little confidence from someone else awoke her inner Victoria Secret model. :)
Jordan Kline is a very popular evening DJ on Central Ohio's Sunny95 radio station.
Since 2012, through dedication and hard work, she lost over 100 lbs. on her own.
And then, she reached a place (specifically around 180 lbs.) where she felt she was at a stand-still. She felt like she couldn't break through that number.
Realizing that her weight loss could only continue if she could keep the fire within her going, she had to make some internal changes. And for her weight loss to be permanent, she had to find a way to support the external changes she had already made, and wanted to continue to make.
In 2016 Losing Coach® happened to be looking for a celebrity endorsement. So one night, Shelley put it out there on her personal Facebook page, and Jordan responded.
Shelley tells the story:
I could feel immediately this was a perfect match.
One night, while we were messaging on Facebook, she told me she felt like she just couldn't break through this number - 180. I told her, "Good! This is exciting, because you are at the perfect place to start Losing Coach®!"
She responded, "Really??"
I knew I had her a little confused at that point...being excited about the rut she was in, but I knew it was okay. After our first coaching session, she would understand and her eyes would be "opened" to the power of surrender in weight loss.
This point, the point of surrender, where one says...I'm stuck and don't know what to do...is the perfect place to be! It's the PERFECT starting place for success!
Jordan needed to hear that it was all okay, and she hadn't done anything wrong.
As a highly driven, hard-working, incredibly accomplished woman, one can understand how her stand-still doesn't make sense. But we understand it completely. And helping women get past the "plateaus" in their weight is our specialty.
On February 2, 2016 Jordan came to the Losing Coach® office and had her 1st coaching session.
Come back each week to follow this page "Jordan's Journey" (www.LosingCoach.com/Jordan) with Losing Coach®.
Shelley will share the take-aways, the ah-ha moments, and Jordan's success with her coaching.
"After her 1st coaching session, Jordan left the Losing Coach® office with a big sigh of relief, knowing she was now fully equipped to get where she longed to go.
I gave her a hug, smiled, and said, 'Now, go eat whatever you want!'"
In 2016 Losing Coach® happened to be looking for a celebrity endorsement. So one night, Shelley put it out there on her personal Facebook page, and Jordan Kline, former DJ on Columbus' Sunny95, responded. This page is where Shelley shares the take-aways, the ah-ha moments, and Jordan's success with her coaching.