It seems like the world is growing ever more impersonal, doesn't it? Everything is automated, people don't return calls or texts, you always have to go online yourself for assistance, it's difficult to reach a real person, and now you have to stay 6 feet apart from another person because of the pandemic. If you've been feeling lonely or isolated, it's because you're experiencing the effect of this impersonal existence in our world. See... you are a PERSON and you need PERSONAL experiences to grow as a PERSON, not a robot.
Even weight loss programs are impersonal. There's rarely any personal connection. It's more like a dictatorship of "Do this" and "Do that" and "Eat this" and "Eat that". And there's certainly no respect for your own intelligence and ability to make your own decisions. See, that would require some personal connection and understanding of you. And they don't have time for that. Just do what they say and if you don't, that's your fault. Think of the last program you tried. If you think you failed, that proves my point. They made it your fault, didn't they? Because you didn't do what they said. They may have acted like they cared about understanding you, but... like flipping a switch, or a disconnected call... they disconnect, you disconnect, it's impersonal.
Your experience in trying to create a happier and healthier you has become so impersonal, it results in you believing it's an impersonal process and causes you to disconnect from your own body, your own mind (your own decision-making). So you continue to seek "automated" ways to lose weight. You sign up for automatic meal plans delivered to you or restrict yourself to following someone else's ideas of how you should lose weight. You don't make it PERSONAL. You don't take it on or do it PERSONALLY. You've learned to keep it at arm's length.
But see weight loss is PERSONAL. It's 100% personal. This is your body. This is your heart's desire. This is your life!! It's very personal. It's about you as a PERSON. And if you want to experience weight loss, you need a PERSONAL experience with it. In Private Coaching, I connect PERSONALLY with my clients and help them to PERSONALIZE the process for themselves. It's more powerful than anything they've ever experienced. It's something they've never experienced before! And it works because weight loss is PERSONAL. And with PERSONAL assistance and PERSONAL application, you will succeed!! Simply contact me! I'm easy to reach and always here to help you PERSONALLY!
Shelley Johnson is the Creator & Founder of The Losing Coach®.